There is a grave problem with Orthodoxy – you can’t do it by the book. Even less so, can you do it by the internet (he says as he types away at his blog). The reason for all this is simple: we teach that God has revealed Himself as Person. God cannot be known in general or in a non-personal way. Indeed, it is God Who reveals to us what it means to be personal. Prior to the revelation of the Trinity, mankind did not know of truly personal existence. It is the gift of God.
But, because we know God personally, everything we know about Him is personal as well. All that we know about each other is personal (at least the things we know that have true value).
This is why Orthodox canons work as they do. Orthodox canons state the Church’s discipline in a maximalist fashion – a fashion which then requires Bishops and priests to apply them, pastorally. Thus Orthodoxy cannot be done “by the book” because people are not books. They are each unique and must be treated in a unique manner.
I have four children (five, including my son who fell asleep in Christ). I love all of them – but as every parent knows you do not love them equally (equality simply has no place in relationships – it’s an abstract and children are not abstractions). I love each of them for themselves, and thus could only love wrongly if I loved them all the same.
There is so much information about the Orthodox faith to be found today. Some of it is in books, some is on the web. Some of it is more accurate than others, some is just plain inaccurate. But if it is a matter of the canons, discussions of them simply must be taken before priests or Bishops who alone bear the responsibility for their application. Indeed, I cannot give someone an opinion on a canon with regard to their life if I am not their priest – I would be usurping the authority of another priest if I did so – and in many cases would need to submit a matter to my Bishop, who alone may give certain rulings of economy.
God has so ordered His Church that it remains personal. I have heard my Archbishop say: “Never let anyone tell you that you are ‘people of the book!’ We are not Muslims!” Orthodoxy recognizes Scripture and its authority, but that authority cannot exist apart from the Church anymore than it can exist apart from God.
I have seen more damage done by the mishandling of Scripture than good done by its proper handling. The reason for this is that in our Protestant culture, everyone thinks their own opinion of Scripture is as good as everyone else’s and it is not. Sola Scriptura has not worked (it has created more schisms than can be numbered). The same approach, applied to the Canons, or books on Orthodoxy will only yield the same fruit.
Thus, the best advice you can give someone with regard to the Orthodox faith is: “Go to Church.” It is the Church that St. Paul calls the “Pillar and Ground of the Truth.” The internet is a wonderful tool. It can even function to give us the Scriptures electronically. Blogs can be nice. But none of them are the Church. Here you may read and by God’s grace good things will happen. But blogs will not give you the Body and Blood of Christ. Blogs cannot anoint you. Go to Church. Say your prayers. Remember God.
And remember to pray for bloggers.
One cannot play Holy Orthodoxy by the book. Even less so by the Internet. The reason is simple: We teach that God has revealed himself as person. God cannot be known in general or in a non-personal way. Indeed, it is God who reveals to us what it means to be personal. Prior to the revelation of the Holy Trinity, humankind did not know of truly personal existence. It is the gift of God.
Because we know God personally, everything we know about Him is personal as well. All we know about each other is personal (at least what have true value). This is why Orthodox Canons work the way they do: Orthodox Canons state the Church’s discipline in the best possible way – that then requires bishops and priests to apply them pastorally. Thus, Orthodoxy cannot be “done by the book”, because people are not books. Each person is unique and must be treated in a unique manner.
There is so much information about the Orthodox faith to be found today. Some of it can be found in books or internet sites. Not all of it is accurate, while others is antiquated or outright contradictory.
God has so ordered His Church to remain personal. Never let anyone tell you that we are “people of the book”. Orthodoxy recognizes Holy Scripture and its authority of course, but that authority does not and cannot exist apart from the Church any more than it can exist apart from God.
The so-called Sola Scriptura idea has not worked (it has created more schisms than can be numbered). The same approach, applied to the Canons or books on Orthodoxy will only yield the same fruit.
Thus, the best advice we can give someone with regard to the Orthodox faith is: Come, experience God in worship and liturgy. It is the Church that St. Paul calls the pillar and ground of the truth. The Internet is a wonderful tool. It can even function to give us the Scriptures electronically. Blogs and Forums can be helpful, provide they do not propagate hateful speech. However, none of these are the Church. No screen or book will ever give you the Body and Blood of Christ. Neither can they anoint you. Come to Church. Say your prayers. Be in the presence of God.
First I would like to extend my sympathies in the loss of your son.
Next, I would say this sentence ” There is so much information about the Orthodox faith to be found today. Some of it can be found in books or internet sites. Not all of it is accurate, while others is antiquated or outright contradictory ” is 100% spot on. That has been my experience. Over the past 8 years since my Chrismation,I’ve seen a lot in what some come “Netodoxy,” and some of it quite dangerous. The world of Orthodoxy online is very prolific and all too often like the wild, wild West. The first place any of us should be going is to our parish to our local priest! Everything else is secondary.