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<\/h3>\n<\/h3>\nBut there was also another side: Many Christmas icons show what it was like for him, withJoseph off in the corner, left out, sometimes with a strange little man (maybe Satan or a fallen angel? in disguise) tempting him to despair: How can I do this? at my age? foster father to the Son of God, guardian to the Mother of God.<\/p>\n Have you ever felt at your wits\u2019 end? Yet by God\u2019s grace Joseph handled it, our example that by the grace of God so can we.<\/p>\n When Jesus was twelve, His parents took Him up to Jerusalem for Passover. \u00a0On the way home to Nazareth they realized He was not with them in the crowd. (It sounds as if He was gregarious, an independent Boy. But try to imagine a society in which parents would for three days just assume that He was ok.) They hurried back to Jerusalem, and found Him in the temple, very much at home\u00a0 We never hear of Joseph again. Sometime before Jesus began His ministry, Joseph died. When? We do not know. We know only that it was before the Crucifixion, for from the Cross Christ left His Mother in the care of John. But I cannot help but think that when Christ descended into hades to rescue the dead, that when He first saw Joseph Jesus said to him, \u201cFather!\u201d And that Joseph said to Him, \u201cMy son!\u201d<\/p>\n Roman Catholics Earliest tradition is clear that Mary had no other children, was \u201cever-Virgin\u201d as we say in our prayers. The word \u201cbrother\u201d in Hebrew can also mean \u201ccousin\u201d or other near relative, but earliest tradition is specific that James was Joseph\u2019s son by his first marriage, thereby Jesus\u2019 \u201cstep brother\u201d. Some said that James was the first of Joseph\u2019s family to believe in Christ, and that James went along with them into Egypt.\u00a0 James had a special place in the early Church. I Corinthians 15 says that after the Resurrection, Peter and James received individual visitations from the Lord. This implies they were close to Him and He had a special task for each of them. In Galatians 1:18-19 Paul wrote that when he went up to Jerusalem three years after his conversion he met with only two men, Peter and James. Acts shows us that James was (as we now call him) first Bishop of Jerusalem, for he presided over the Apostolic Council \u00a0in Jerusalem, and he (not Peter, interestingly enough) announced the decision that we Gentiles would not be required to keep the Old Testament Law. Which is why I could have bacon on Christmas morning. Thank you, James! James\u2019 Epistle begins \u201cJames servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ\u201d, servant to his Brother Jesus.<\/p>\n Tradition says that he and the other Christians who stayed in Jerusalem after persecution began tried to make themselves as acceptable as possible to the non-believers, and James came to be so\u00a0 I think we all here are concerned by the breakdown of the traditional family in the modern world. But we do need to remember that the Holy Family was anything but a traditional family.<\/p>\n In what follows I am not trying to be irreverent, only to consider how odd the Holy Family must have looked to someone from Nazareth who \u201cdidn\u2019t know\u201d:<\/p>\n \u201cJoseph, that old widower on his second marriage! Well, it looks like one those May-December things that old men are sometimes suckers for. I heard how Joseph\u2019s sons and daughters reacted when he came home engaged to this young thing. And I heard that someone said that they heard (many people don\u2019t know this) that when she got pregnant, Joseph said it wasn\u2019t his (little wonder at his age), and that Mary told him\u2026well, you\u2019d never believe it. And\u00a0even worse Joseph fell for it! He should have had her stoned! No wonder they got out of town to have him born. And then somehow they got into trouble with Herod and had to flee the country and take refuge in Egypt. And after they came home then Jesus never married. Why\u2026?\u2026? All Jewish men get married.<\/p>\n \u201cSo then Jesus leaves and when he comes back a couple of years later, he\u2019s gone crazy! He thinks he\u2019s the Messiah! Little wonder they drove him out.\u00a0And then he refuses to give it up and they execute him. What shame on our little village, every time they call him \u201cJesus of Nazareth\u201d. And then to make it even worse, his brother James (he seemed like such a good man) falls for it too and becomes leader of this renegade band of heretics, till the authorities have to kill him too! What an awful family! And to think they came from here!\u201d<\/p>\n To repeat, I\u2019m not being irreverent. I\u2019m just trying to imagine how Jesus\u2019 Family looked to people who didn\u2019t believe. A very unusual Family, to put it mildly.<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n I believe in traditional Christian families. I hope you do, too. They are the foundation of society. The family home is a \u201clittle church\u201d. But we do need to remember that out of that very non-traditional Holy Family came Jesus the Christ, and a new and very different kind of Family which has spread over all the world, all of us newly born in Baptism into the Church, the eternal Family of God, all of us fathers and mothers and brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ, a Family that even death can\u2019t destroy.<\/p>\n Who would ever have believed it? Except for One: Jesus of Nazareth.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/frbillsorthodoxblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/joseph-bethrothed.jpeg\")
Don\u2019t believe those Christmas card pictures with Joseph as a handsome young guy. Earliest tradition says Joseph was an older widower with grown children, a carpenter (or it can be translated craftsman) and a just man, it says. Mary, remember, had been raised in the temple. When she came to marrying age (about 13) and refused, and her parents were dead, the high priest had to do something. So by lot it fell on old Joseph to be her guardian and legal husband.\u00a0She was younger than his own children. And then\u2026 the things he saw! As the Troparion for the Sunday before the Nativity of Christ tells us: \u201cJoseph\u2026you have seen a Virgin great with Child; you have given glory with the shepherds; you have worshipped with the Magi; And you have been instructed by an angel.\u201d What wonders!![\"\"](\"http:\/\/frbillsorthodoxblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/christmas-joseph.jpg\")
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with the teachers and scholars there. Mary scolded Him (Imagine scolding God Incarnate!): \u201cSon, how could you treat us like this? Your father and I have been anxious, looking for you.\u201d Jesus answered \u201cDid you not know I\u00a0<\/span>must be in my Father\u2019s house?\u201d (Many translate it \u201cabout my Father\u2019s business\u201d.) Mary obviously knew Her Son\u2019s origin, but it says \u201cat first they did not understand His words\u201d.\u00a0I love this icon, old Joseph with his little \u201cadopted son\u201d.\u00a0<\/i>Because Joseph had been His true father on earth \u2013 a truly humble man who guided the Boy all through His childhood, had spent time with Him, taught Him to be a carpenter like himself.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/frbillsorthodoxblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/st-jos-worker.jpeg\")
\u00a0give Saint Joseph much honor\u00a0right<\/em>,<\/em>\u00a0but in our Orthodox Church he is almost the forgotten man. We hear little of him. Icons of Saint Joseph (except at Christmas off in a corner) are not common. I wish we paid him more attention. He deserves it. Holy Joseph, pray for us \u2013 we who have been made part of the Family of your \u201cson\u201d Jesus, just as you took Him into your family.<\/p>\nJames the Brother of the Lord<\/b><\/h3>\n
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Old Joseph certainly could have used the help.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/frbillsorthodoxblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/james-the-just-death.jpg\")
respected by people that they called him James the Just. He was so trusted that the authorities were misled, for they worked out a plan to nip Christianity in the bud. They took James up atop a wall of the temple and instructed him to tell the crowd below that Jesus was not the Messiah. Instead he proclaimed his little Step-brother as Messiah and Lord and Son of God. Then somehow immediately James \u201cjust happened\u201d to fall off the wall onto the street. He survived but it was said someone in the crowd hit him in the head with a rock. So James Brother of the Lord was martyred about the year 62.<\/p>\nThe Family of Jesus<\/h3>\n